Saturday, December 26, 2015

Our First Christmas alone as the Darren and Amy Balls family



We had a lovely simple quiet Christmas at our home.  We watched a family movie.  We watched a video about Christ's birth. We had some yummy treats.  We talked about the gift that Baby Jesus was.  Then the kids went to sleep and Darren and I went out for a lovely walk in the new snow.  We walked to the Draper Park and enjoyed the lights all over the trees.  It was a lovely evening.  We enjoyed presents in the morning.  Then the kids had to show the neighbors their new things.  That turned in to breakfast at Grandma Days house and games and playing!  It was a lovely day.  Darren and I did shovel our extra long driveway for almost two hours.  What a workout!







That night we headed to Primary Childrens Hospital so share some songs with the patients there.  Tyler played some songs and we sang songs and others shared also.  Thanks to Aunt Ronda for putting it all together.  


But if Darren has off work we fill the time with outdoor activities and projects.  We also tiled the backsplash in our kitchen.  He did a great job.  I appreciate all his hard work.


Thursday, December 24, 2015

Harston sisters for Christmas

I cant believe I only have two pictures from all the days we spent together.  My sister Jenny came into town and we played the days away.

Meals at each others homes.  Skiing one day at Brighton.  Swimming at the rec center.  Movies and games with cousins.  Lots of playing with cousins.  Maybe someone else will have pictures I will have to post here later.

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Balls Family for Christmas


We love to have family time.  A highlight is always Aunt Nellie.  She took Abby and I took a makeup store.  Abby was so happy.  She applied her own blush down one side of her cheek.  And instead of Nellie doing Abbys hair, Abby wanted to do her hair.



We made gingerbread homes with Jordan and Nellie.  We all drove down town and saw the lights.  Then Jordan, Nellie, Tyler and Ella stood in line to get stand by tickets for the Mormon Tabernacle Choir Christmas Concert.  Tyler was on the edge of his seat the whole time, just eating it up.  Darren and I headed home to put Abby to bed (after stopping at the toys for a minute at City Creek).  After the concert, the kids got burgers and then rode the train back home.







We had a lovely dinner at Corie and Nolan's house on the 23rd.  The table was amazing.  It set the mood for a lovely night.  The food was wonderful, traditional chicken BBQ sandwiches.  Delicious.  Nellie gave the kids all fun musical instruments and they danced and sang as she played the piano.  Pat, Seth and  Nellie got on a late night red eye flight to spend Christmas with Jason and Whit in Florida.








Hermana Harston's visit

My mom assured me that missions are not the same as they were years ago and it was ok to make a quick trip home to see her children before the holidays.  We love it!  Candaces daughter Liesel kept finding Grandma throughout the night and standing there until Grandma picked her up.  She was so happy to see her.  We got to all see her the first night she flew in.  We love and miss Grandpa too.  Abby said, she wanted to see Grandpa too.  Thank goodness for Skype!





Monday, December 21, 2015

Getting to Christmas 2015...

The kids wrote a Christmas their Christmas list this year.  I dont really remember them doing it much before.

Ella she wants a puppy and a baby a live and a baby.  I dont think we can manage two of those things.  Maybe a pretend baby that she can take care of.

Tyler wrote a crazy list.  He later rethought the list and said he really didn't want an iPad, Wii, electric scooter or nerf guns.  But he did say he wanted a watch and collared shirts.  He wrote he wanted Pokemon cards but "don't get me these if you don't want to!"



Darren got to dress up like an elf for a work Christmas party.  Oh boy! he looks good in tight pants!

We had a great Neighborhood Christmas Breakfast.  It made me happy to see Tyler on Santa's knee.  And of course Abby wouldn't do it unless Ella was right there!

We also went to a friends house for a fun Christmas Party.  So fun to visit, eat and play some silly games!


Our neighborhood also does a super fun tradition of no neighborhood gifts.  Instead we meet and donate food and gifts to a needy shelter.  The family hosting provides donuts and hot cocoa.  This year it was snowy and cold but so wonderful! Santa was there.  He told the kids he had to go and that his reindeer were right around the corner.  Oh boy, they wanted to follow him around he corner!


And it has snowed and snowed and snowed.  That is one sure way to make it feel like Christmas.





Sunday, December 13, 2015

To Ski or Snowboard??? That is the question


I signed my kids up for a free snowboarding lesson at Brighton.  They say they really enjoyed it but I cant let them cross over can I?  Ella has the turquoise helmet and red coat and Tyler has the white helmet and red coat.



A few days later we went up skiing as a family.  All of us.  Abby was a champ. She loved it.  But it has been really cold to take her up there again.



Then there is Darren.  He gets up at 5:00 AM some mornings and hikes a mountain to arrive and sunrise and get some great turns in before work.  He might be getting the winning deal.  If only the hike with skis and boots was so hard and long I would join him!  One day... one day...



Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Minimalism

I have been reading about being a minimalist lately..... Not having everything... owning less... only necessity.

Own Less, Be More

At Quma Learning, we are all about Ownership Spirit. We recommend whole-hearted, unrestrained ownership of one’s thoughts, responses, and actions. Such unfettered endorsement of ownership does not, however, pertain to ownership of material goods and possessions. 
 
Ownership of material goods and possessions comes with a price tag. Before you rush head-long into acquiring all those toys and trinkets, be sure you count all the costs. When it comes to possessions, all ownership is a form of bondage. Here’s why: Once you acquire something you are now responsible for its care and upkeep. You must protect and preserve your treasure, otherwise all the time, money and effort to acquire it in the first place goes for naught.

Bear in mind the most universal and powerful law of goods and possessions: Stuff breaks! Take a look around. Everywhere you go, you see things falling apart. It’s called entropy; and it’s unstoppable. If you are reading this at work, all your stuff back home is at this very moment in some stage of breaking. And, you’re the one who has to own that too—fix it or pay someone else to do it.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t own anything. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t own a home, car or clothing. On the contrary, I am a big advocate of home ownership. Just don’t go overboard. There is more to life than making an outrageous mortgage payment for 30 years. So, yes, own what you need. Own some things that you want. But count all the costs, especially when it comes to toys, recreational equipment and recreational properties. 
 
Possessions don’t fret; possessors do. The possession makes no commotion, it just quietly and politely rusts and disintegrates. Owners are the ones with their sleeves rolled up, perspiration pouring off their brows, straining to repair or refurbish some mute, inanimate and ungrateful object. Owners are the ones shelling out cash to preserve what they shelled out cash to acquire. They’re the ones spending their weekends, vacations, and holidays taking care of the stuff they use to enjoy their free time. Sometimes it’s hard to tell who owns what in this equation.

I love being free to do what feels fun, right, and most desirable at the time. I don’t want to feel obligated or pressured by some toy or property that I bought. People who spend a lot of money on a boat or cabin, sense pressure to spend ample time using them. So they press a little, and go there when they would really rather stay home, or go somewhere else. I do not want my decisions about how to spend my time to be overly influenced by how I spent my money. I want my free time to be free time.

The point here is not how much you can save or make by owning less, but what you can be and do by owning less. Own only the essentials, and you will own more life. To be more, own less.

                                                                                                                                                 - Dennis R Deaton