Tuesday, April 1, 2025

Week 32: "Yes ...and"

No way it's already April.  This week had some high highs and low lows.  (Daylight savings time has me absolutely cooked.) But the hard weeks help you focus on why you are on a mission in the first place. One reason for me is to turn outward and serve others. Also got some lovely pizza from a robot vending machine, that was cool

Spiritual Thought:  

I was listening to a talk this week by Sister Holland and she said 

“Be your own best friend”

I've never heard this before but I love it. 

“Many of us create a civil war within ourselves by internalizing problems of fear, uncertainty, self-doubt, and worry—often over things we can do precious little about.”

I love this message, let us try to worry less about the things we can't control

But as we do that she also says, 

“Be more caring for yourself and as kind to yourself as you would be to a friend in need. You are in need, and you ought to be your own best friend.”

I hope you all are taking care of yourselves and being your own best friends! 

Short Version of Email: Zone Conference. Good restaurant on P-day. Young men's event, good runs in the morning. Good young men's event. Not so good finding success and member training. 

Finnish Word of the Week:   Välikuolema = temporarily passing out while binge drinking but literally translates to “intermediate death”

Daylight Counter!

Where we started–4 Hours 40 minutes

This week–13 Hours 30 min

5 Amazing Things This Week:

1: Zone Conference started out the week very strong. So many great messages were shared and so much of it was just what I needed. Even down to questions I had prayed about the night before. We did some fun activities as well. 

2: Went to a Teppanyaki restaurant on P-day. That was fun. Also had another lovely hike and got to go on a run with the AP’s.






3:  Zone leader splits were super fun. We got to teach some lessons which was a good change because we haven't been able to find very many friends to teach despite our 5-6 hours of “finding” per day. 

4:  We hosted a young men's event. It was so fun to be with them and tell them about the mission. They are all good kids and want to serve missions too! We also played some Secret Hitler with them which was the funniest thing I've done in a minute. 

5:   Had an event where we tried to teach the members how to use social media in subtle ways to help spread missionary work. It went really well besides the fact that only 1 couple came. They are lovely though. 

Tender Mercy of the Week:

We had the most wonderful baptism this week for the sister missionary’s friend. I got to accompany one of the sisters on the piano as she played violin. While I was playing, I kept getting the thought to check if the pages were in the wrong order, but I didn't check. The pages ended up being in the wrong order which caused quite the head ache. Looking back on it, I was for sure getting a prompting from the Holy Ghost because the thought was so random. I know the Spirit is active in our lives and he wants to help us in even the small things every day! 


Where I am/Who I'm With: I am serving in Tampere. My companion is Elder Gillespie. 

More Fun Facts about Elder Gillespie

-Looks like Ryan Gosling 

-Has an American flag on his desk  

-Excellent apartment de-clutterer

Scripture of the Week:  

Doctrine and Covenants 29:7 And ye are called to bring to pass the gathering of mine elect; for mine elect hear my voice and harden not their hearts;

My thoughts:  Cool missionary scripture but also for everyone because we can all work to invite and gather new friends or our families (etc.) to hear God's word. Especially with General Conference coming up! 

Talk of the Week:  

https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/lisa-valentine-clark/yes-and-the-creative-art-of-living/

“Yes, and…”: The Creative Art of Living. Lisa Valentine Clark  July 20, 2021

My Thoughts: Cool BYU speech that talks about improvisation theater skills that can be used for life when things don't go your way, also had an amazing but sad story. I want to be using the “Yes…and” principle more often. 


-Elder Balls

Monday, March 31, 2025

March 2025

 Abby is growing up.  She still has her tiggy and blankets which I love.  

Darren got in some great ski days up on Lone Peak.  I can't imagine skinning up it.  But it sure would be fun to ski down!



Ella got invited to lots of Varsity track meets.  Driving down to St George with friends is pretty grown up.  Come Follow me with Chad for his birthday.  It is a highlight of my week to meet together on Sundays with the Dowlands, Harstons, and Larrabees. 

Spring is funny in Utah.  Road biking with short sleeves and then skiing in Logan with Grandpa.  









Saturday, March 29, 2025

Ella's 17th birthday and PROM with Jimmy

 Ella had friends over for her birthday.  Pizza and treats.  But we loved that she went to Prom with Jimmy.  He is a good boy! and they looked perfect together. 






Cause I had to find some pictures of them together when they were younger.  
















Tuesday, March 25, 2025

Week 31:Spring is here

 Week 31: 3/25/2025

Spring is coming, I am happy. I love and miss you all! Do something fun this week for me! Just learned a tiktok dance for Zone Conference yay. 


Spiritual Thought:  

Alma 48:17 is one of my favorite verses. Moroni is incredible. 

17“Yea, verily, verily I say unto you, if all men had been, and were, and ever would be, like unto Moroni, behold, the very powers of hell would have been shaken forever; yea, the devil would never have power over the hearts of the children of men.” 

But I never really noticed the verses after it
18: Behold, he was a man like unto Ammon, the son of Mosiah, yea, and even the other sons of Mosiah, yea, and also Alma and his sons, for they were all men of God. 

19: “Now behold, Helaman and his brethren were no less serviceable unto the people than was Moroni; 

How amazing that others are like Moroni. Even saying they are “no less serviceable.”  Corianton, Alma the Younger and all the Sons of Mosiah are all included. All people who sinned grievously. But who repented so fully and were truly forgiven. They were considered as noble and righteous as Captain Moroni.  I love how willing the lord is to forgive us.

Short Version of Email: Stake conference I got to go down early because I played in it. Cool hike on a lake. All finnish day. Dinner with the youth

Finnish Word of the Week:   Iltatähti = is the youngest child in a family when there’s a significant age gap between the youngest and the other child(ren) but it literally means “Evening star”

Daylight Counter!

Where we started–4 Hours 40 minutes

This week–12 Hours 38 min

5 Amazing Things This Week:

1: Stake conference in Turku which is a city I have never been to before! I played the piano for it so we got to stay overnight with the zone leader. There are outside our zone! Also the talks were amazing and we got to see so many other missionaries. 

2: Went on a cool hike last p-day to a frozen lake which was very pretty. 

3:  Made pizza for dinner one day and got to enjoy eating it while we walked to our next appointment. In Finland this is a very weird thing to do. No one, and I mean no one eats food in public. We had some people eyeing our pizza so we asked this cool looking guy if he wanted it and he said he would love it! We got his number and made a new friend. 

4:  The mission has started doing a challenge where you can only speak Finnish for a whole day. So on Saturday was an English fast. It was hard but it did help my Finnish. 

5:   Had a dinner with all the youth in Tampere. My comp and I shared a spiritual thought which was terrifying. It was a hard crowd to please but hopefully they liked it. I learned some origami from one of the recent converts there. It was amazing. 

Tender Mercy of the Week:

We were out in the heavy snow trying to find an open apartment to knock doors inside and we couldn't get into any apartment building. We had been at it for more than 30 minutes. I was frustrated and feeling mad at God. I told Elder Gillespie that we were going to say a prayer. We did. The next apartment building we tried was unlocked.

Where I am/Who I'm With: I am serving in Tampere. My companion is Elder Gillespie. 

More Fun Facts about Elder Gillespie

-Sleeps on the floor. 

-Loves to dance, is quite good as well. 

-I forgot if I put this already but he LOVES to sing



Scripture of the Week:  Alma 22:18

18 O God, Aaron hath told me that there is a God; and if there is a God, and if thou art God, wilt thou make thyself known unto me, and I will give away all my sins to know thee, and that I may be raised from the dead, and be saved at the last day. And now when the king had said these words, he was struck as if he were dead.

My thoughts:  Elder Gillespie told me to put this scripture in. It's a great one. What can we give away to know God

Talk of the Week:  https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/michael-a-dunn/these-foolish-things/

“These Foolish Things”. Michael A. Dunn March 4, 2025

My Thoughts: Wonderful talk. Such a creative idea for a talk. This is one of my new favorites. Sometimes we must all be fools for Christ. 


Bye!  -Elder Balls

Saturday, March 22, 2025

Abby's 12th Birthday Week

 Abby got invited to the IMD champs held at Snowbasin.  Last year it was at Tamarack so we loved having it close this year.  Out of 100 girls who qualified as the best in their area she placed around 25th in all the races.  It is her last season and she has loved it.  



On her birthday morning, we had oranges, eggs, and breakfast cake.  She requested fish for dinner but we were so full of crepes we didn't eat any fish! But we did go climbing and she can finally belay now that she is 12 years old. 

For her birthday party she wanted to go up to the cabin.  Here are a few highlights: Matching pj's, murder mystery, sauna, swing, snowmobiling, games, staying up late, and good food